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लव मैरिज नीमन बा कि अरेंज मैरिज ( Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage )

Hamnee ke jaanee leen ke koiyo chhez perfect naikhe. Par ek vivad hamesh rahela naujawanan larka aur larkee men. Ki love marriage barhiya ba to koi khela ki naheen arrange marriage barhiyan ba.
. Aap batain aapker ka bichar hoo. apne bicher ke theek batave ke khatir support idea bhee aapke devai ke hao. Ki kahe aap kahat hain ki Love chahe arrange marriage barhiya kahe hao.

Hamaar bichar men arrange marriage bahiyan ba. Kahe ki dulha aur dulhin amuman do shahar ke hovai len aur larkee kee parivar aur larka ke parivar men tussel na hove la . Ohee se naval biyahal log shantee se rah leve le. Naheen to larkee ke parivar wale log bas bahkavee ke kam kre lan larkiya ke.
Aur larkee 2 hissa men bant ja le sasural aur mayke men. Jab mayka wale log door rahe len to larkee aapna vichar se jayada tar nrnay theek levai leen.

Ham hiyan hain Canada men hain aur dekaht hain. 100% love marriage men 58% talaak rate ba, jub ke baccha log high school men pahunch rahal hauven. Soul mates 15 saal ke bad court men mile len. Kahe? Kahe ? Kahe?

Ham aage aur batyaib aaap logan ke bichar sune ke baad. Ham bas bharat ke khateer atna chahat hain ki log western culture naheen apnavain. ekar ant bas divorce hao.

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Permalink Reply by Mrs.Meera Trivedi on June 15, 2010 at 2:55am

आशुतोष जी,
हमरे बिचार से तो अरेंज मॅरेज बेस्ट बा बेस्ट रही. हियाँ बिदेश में रह के 100% लोवेमॅरेज और 15 बार्स बाद 60% तलाक़ देख कर हम सोचेलीं की आपण इंडियन अरेंज मॅरेज बरहियाँ बा?

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Permalink Reply by सुधांशु भोजपुरिया on June 15, 2010 at 11:02am

meera ji pranam
pahale ta dhanyawad etana badiya saubject ke aage le aawe khatin
pahala baat ba ki jo maa baap 20-22 saal apne pet kat kat kar apna laika ya laiki ke palat poshat banan u maa baap ka jagah ta hamara hisab bhagwan bhi na le sakat banan ta 4-5 mahina se agar kauno laike jaan gail humke ta ketna upkar ka dehlsa
jaun maa baap jindagi dehan hamar chot se chot bad se bad jindagi ka faisala lehanan ta aitna aham faisla lewe mai u kaise galati kar diahan koi bhi maa baap jan bhujh ke aapan laika chahe laiki ke jinadi kharab na kari

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Permalink Reply by सुधांशु भोजपुरिया on June 15, 2010 at 11:05am

Arranged Marriage

fayda :
- Mai Babu ke sathe pariwar aur ristedar ke khusi.
-Du pariwar ke milan
-Ijjat samman

Nukshan:

-Dahej pratha ke badhawa
-Sadi ke baad pati patni ke talmel naa rahla ke sambhawna
-Individual Pasand naa pasand ke upecha
-aur bahut chot chot baat.

Love Marriage

Fayda:
-Apan pasand ke samman
-Dahej Pratha ke katnma
-Individual aa sistmetic lifestyle
-jati pratha ke khtma

Nuksan:

-Samaj ke manyta milla me paresoni
-Akanki jivan ke badhava
-Samajik tanaw ke vajh se bada nuksan

humara hisab se dahej ta ego dusare bemari ba e bimari ka arrenge ya love marrige se kauno sarokar naikhe hum kai go laikan ke dekhale bani ki amir baap ke beti ke dahej khatin jhuto ke love marrige kar let bansa

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Permalink Reply by Mrs.Meera Trivedi on August 7, 2010 at 9:39am

Love marriage hamaar contract ham Joreen ham Toreen.Arrange marriage ghar pariwar samaj jaun kam kailas okra hamra ke tore ke dam naikhe. :Log ka kaheehan? Men Jindgee beet ja la.

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Permalink Reply by Rajesh Yadav on August 7, 2010 at 10:17am

Meera ji Pranam aa Jai Bhojpuri,

Bahut hi gambheer mudda ba eh ajkal ke parivesh main aa dekhal jaw ki shadi aa biyah haman ke ihan kahal ha ki jodi ta upere se banke awat hain.

Chahen ii arrange marraige hokhe ya Love marraige akhir hot ta biahe ha, aa dekhin agar manush ki bhitar ek dushara ke samajhe ke aur bardashat kare ke shakti ba ta jinagi badi aram se kat jai lekin agar ii duno bhav naikhen ta jinagi main hamesha tanav banale rahi.

Ta hum ta ihan etane kahab ajkal ke samay ke dekh ke kii Ghar parivar, mahatari bap ke uhe karen ke chahhin jawana main laikan bachan ke khusi hokhe.

Dhanyawad aa Jai bhojpuri.

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Permalink Reply by Mrs.Meera Trivedi on July 9, 2012 at 1:18am

Rajesh Jee,

Raur antim paragraph pe hamra aapatee ba.

Bai baap ke wahee kare ke chahee jeme likan ke khushee ba. Laikan Bacchan duniyan na dekhale baran. Mai baap dekhale baran. Just love can not pay for an evening dinner. HAmanee ke prath aun hazaron barson se chal aayeel ba ookara preeche kaun bhalai hoi yehee se aaj tak chalat ba

Ham 100% Love marriage wala desh men raheleen aur hiya 58% high school student single parent family se awat baran.

Ka ho jaat ba soul mates ke ? 15 bars men soul mates soul killer ho ja rahal baran? Soul mates 15 saal baad ke nazara na jane lan jaun ki mai bap doordarshee hove ke karan jaan leve laan yehee se man kare lan.

Ham to kahab love marriage jaun hiyan hove le omme shadee ke pura kharcha jimmedaree laik laikee pe hove la. Arrange mairriage men. Mai baap sab kar dee just dulha ke jake aapan kapra napva ke silvave ke ba.

Arrange marriage bahriya ba.